Autism New Jersey was proud to host a program to teach caregivers of individuals with autism how to better manage challenging behavior.
The training delivered by Ukeru provided practical, restraint-free techniques to support safer environments. The all-day session emphasized prevention, regulation, and de-escalation to reduce the likelihood of crises, while equipping families with strategies to keep both themselves and their children safe. The overarching focus was on safety, dignity, and reducing harm, giving families tools they can use to build trust and connection.
“Our family training with Ukeru was a huge success,” said Darren Blough, Director of Public Policy and Clinical Partnerships at Autism New Jersey. “Helping individuals with severe challenging behavior is an agency priority. We were proud to help facilitate a session where families learned practical safety strategies and were engaged, open, and deeply connected.”
Sixteen people attended the all-day training on February 11, most of them mothers of children or adults with profound autism. Ukeru is Japanese for “receive,” and the training is grounded in the philosophy that the best response to challenging behavior is to provide comfort rather than control, encouraging safety while helping the person identify what they need.
Participants learned how trauma affects the brain and behavior, and then they received hands-on instruction in protecting themselves and others during crisis situations. The attendees practiced strategies to defend themselves from choking, biting and other forms of aggression, while maintaining their child’s safety and helping them get the support they need.
“Many participants from yesterday have reached out to say how valuable the day was,” said Pat Miller, parent of an adult son with profound autism and state chair of the New Jersey Chapter of the National Council on Severe Autism. Several members of her organization attended the event. “It really was so important for so many of us who live with this fear every day to have more safe ways to deal with and prevent these behaviors.”
The challenges expressed by participants highlight the urgent need for more resources to help caregivers. Autism New Jersey is committed to ensuring safe and fulfilling lives for individuals with autism, their families and professionals. Our 800.4.AUTISM Helpline has received many calls from parents seeking tools to keep themselves and their children safe during episodes of severe challenging behavior. Through the power of connection, Autism New Jersey can offer programs like Ukeru that bring meaningful support to families.